Get Rid of Your Bad Habits
“Our character is
basically a composite of our habits. Because they are consistent, often
unconscious patterns, they constantly, daily, express our character.” -Stephen
Covey
You may be getting
pleasure while biting your nails or cracking your knuckles but those habits may
be irritating somebody and you may sometimes not notice too. People around you
may be just like mirror but you may not be serious to have a look and you may
not unsparingly be honest to realize the impending outcome of the undesirable
habit.
Only your mentor or
a close friend will be dare enough to point you out for you filthy habits like
coming late in the meeting, picking your nose or teeth in public, checking your phone at lunch
table, eating with mouth open, snapping gum in public, talking when movie is on
etc. These may seem very normal to you but they drastically play a major role
for your personality disorder.
Recently a widely considered as the
greatest sportsman of all times that mesmerized
the world with his astonishing dribbling skills and scintillating
performances suffered a massive heart attack and left everyone gasping for
breath. Some of his fans also grappled with the facts that his drug addiction
tainted his later years and led him being kicked out of sports in and banned
from the game for 15 months. Knee injuries took their toll as weight problems and
he was hospitalized with severe heart ailment half a dozens of years before his
death. The respiratory problems linked to cocaine addiction led him using
crutches to walk for rest of his life.
Impact On Health
Our metabolism
decreases over the age. If you are not serious about your health, it may land
you in serious situation. Some of the bad eating habits may increasingly induce
some kind of under secretion of glands and you may rush up to health centers
for check up. Your smoking habit may not be that serious in the beginning but
when your MRI scan detects cancer in your lungs, you may hit your head in the
wall but it will be too late.
I have seen people
who are putting their health priorities at last and casual smokers turning into
chain smoker. When they are in the primary stage of cancer they blame tobacco
companies and never realizing their own roll. Excessive drinking habits also
turns a person alcoholic and ultimately spoils the lever landing to vulnerable
infectious diseases such as pneumonia and tuberculosis.
Inadequate food
habits just like taking excessive salt or sugar, frequently taking energy
drinks or cold drinks and taking fast food too frequently may leave the severe
consequences due to vitamins and mineral deficiencies. You every bite of food
you eat reflects on your overall health.
Poor Productivity
Habits
You may be hard
worker and seem to be always busy guy sitting at desk but you may never notice
or may ignore some of the proficiency related bad habits just like
perfectionism, overscheduling, procrastination and refusing to learn new
skills. I was in the similar category when I was writing tones of email
manually to each individual and never realized the power of mail merge and
email automation that empowered me later on for saving lot of time and energy.
Your mentor may be a very best critic for your improvement if you submit to
your him.
Bad Monetary habits
Whether you are a
professional or a salaried individual, you may realize one day that money may
not buy happiness, but it makes you a lot more comfortable, whether you are
happy or not. Most people work pretty hard for the money they get as they are
very serious about the working and deserve to gather as much of it as possible.
But losing money due to bad spending habits is something thought provoking and
it is necessary to learn more about personal finance other finance. The
compounding interest effects of your bills paid very late may be trivial for
you but their long term calculation may disturb you tragically when they drain
out hell of your hard earned money. Financial habits is a relative term and
matter of consideration of attention as not sticking to your budget or
overpaying on entertainment may prove to be worse than your gambling habits. When
we are in process of understanding and following the rules of conservation and
adopting the use of incandescent bulbs rather than CFLs ,we should also advise
our children to avoid leaving lights on when they leave the rooms, leaving cell
phone plugged in even when it is fully charged.
Behavioral Bad Habits
Your behavioral
patterns decide overall personality and pushes individual to a lower standard
and thus traits are not liked by the people. Due to our egoistic approach we
are sometimes underrate others and impose our standard. This overwhelming
desire may lead person to failure. A very bad habit of blaming others may not
only pull down victims but the whole purpose of good outcome is defeated when
people gradually avoid working with such low image individual.
Replace The Habits
Bad habits are not
for breaking but substituting with a good one. It is very hard to break the
habit as it is wired to behavior pattern generalized with so many repetitions.
When you meet to a group of friends which used to enjoy the party together,
your desire for drinking beer triggers. You can avoid or replace the company
and with over a period you may break the habit of such drinking. Have
conversation with a friend about going to get a quick glass of juice together
rather than standing outside with another friend who give you company for your
cigarettes. After all it is matter of will power that will make or break the
habits.
Take Away
1. If you plant
seeds of tobacco, never expect to grow apples.
2. Break the bad
habit otherwise that may break you badly.


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